5. I didn't get a chance to post anything timely about our St. Valentine's Day celebration, so here are a few pictures, only a week late...
Our Lady's Shrine, prepared for the day
Each of the girls (including the wife!) gets a special card from Daddy every St. Valentine's Day.
We have a tradition that the boys cook for the girls on St. Valentine's Day. Since Dan and son #2, Kevin, are the only ones around, they orchestrated the whole thing this year, just the two of them. It was a Chinese theme. Half of the courses they bought prepared at Sams, the other half they made themselves. Which was OK by us! They started us off with egg drop soup and hot tea, then followed with egg rolls, orange chicken, garlic shrimp, and lobster something ( I can't remember what it was called, but it was mmbaby-good!). Then we finished off with a heart-shaped cheese cake. Yum! (This photo is not a very good one, but we were all too busy eating to think of taking pictures!)
6. To get back to more recent events: I left Michelle to babysit Gabe, Anna, and Theresa today, while I went to town to run errands with Cathy and William. We had to go get a copy of Jon's (missing) birth certificate for him to send away for a passport, because, (...drumroll...) for his senior class trip, he's going to ROME!! Agh! Can you believe it! I wish I could stow away in his luggage! But, Jon assures me that he and his siblings will definitely send their Dad and me someday. (Isn't he nice?) But, in the meantime, Jon's been instructed to take as many pictures as he possibly can and write everything down in a journal for us all to share with him when he gets back. Isn't it exciting?!
7. So, anyway, from the excitement of the mountaintops to the simple beauty of wildflowers... When we got back from town this afternoon, after successfully getting a copy of that birth certificate, this is what I found on my bed:
Gabe and Anna had found the basket of clean laundry that was waiting for me and folded all the clothes. Do you see their unique method? They folded each article of clothing in half long-wise, and rolled it up like a sleeping bag. Isn't that hilarious? Thing is, everything was perfectly wrinkle-free when I snuck back in there to re-fold it. This may be my new folding style from now on. (Little sweeties.)
Bonus Quick Take: I have a post that I've been trying to write for three weeks now that is an answer to comments a reader made about a big family post I wrote called How we're populating the earth. I feel just terrible, but I've been having a dickens of a time carving out the time and perking up the braincells I need to give the questions asked proper consideration. (The insomnia thing really leaves me fuzzy-brained. It's awful.) I apologize to Michelle (the reader) for taking so long! I'm working on it and should have a response by the weekend. Please stay tuned!
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4 comments:
I love these quick takes.
What a lovely tradition that the boys prepare a meal for the girls....definitely molding great future spouses there.
The laundry "roll"...love it.
My husband is an expert at folding laundry. When he does mine, my clothes look like they belong on a shelf at the Gap.
No problem, take your time. I have been thinking about it a lot as well. I roll my wash clothes, which is a method I stole from my mom. Also, everytime I pack to go on a trip I roll stuff. It is a good space saver and good for the wrinkles as well.
I laughed at your haircut QT! I also go in for a trim when pony tail becomes a default!
Nice folded laundry! That's something that my oldest would do. Can't wait until she's old enough to babysit for a few minutes!
so I went back and read Michelle's questions. They are daunting indeed.
If I may put forth a little bit from my little family (3 kids) while you're working on that big post from your big family perspective??
Here's my take on the matter.
You make your priorities and plan accordingly.
for us a priority was having a stay at home parent at all times. Here's how we do it. We bought a house, it's old in a small town and we're busting a the seams in it. But it was what we could afford on one salary. We only have one car. It's used with many miles, but it's what we can afford on one salary. We do not eat out. If we go to Sonic it's a big deal...if we order pizza it's HUGE. We have 2 extra freezers...we buy what's on sale.
There are many ways to save money, and it boils down to chose what's most important. We stopped putting money into the college funds, there's nothing wrong with working your way through college or with financial aid. I've done both, yes I'm still paying for my college. But to us it's more important for the kids to have a stay at home parent than to have college paid for.
Oh, and that stay at home parent?? it's my husband. I make almost 1.5 times as much as he did, so after the last kid weaned I went to work and he "retired".
Examine your life and see where you spend "extra" money. Find solutions to problems that don't require money...look for "unusual" ways to accomplish things.
If you wait to be able to afford the kids you'll never have them...if you have the kids you'll find a way to afford them.
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