Friday, March 20, 2009

Quick Takes


We recently did a unit study on Wales (which turned out to be something totally different than my two little boys thought it would be). Wales is one of those overlooked countries, you know? But my husband's and my surnames are both of Welsh extraction, and we found in our studies that it's a proud and beautiful nation. My Dad is proud of his ancestry, which is why I guess he used to always sing a Welsh fighting song. I always thought it was a funny song, because it sounded like the opening words were "Men of Garlic in the Holly." So, I was thinking about this song the other day and thinking it would be a good thing to add to our knowledge of the country, so I looked it up, and through some trial and error, found the following:






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Go figure; it's not Men of Garlic, it's Men of Harlech. The opening stanza goes like this, in English:

Men of Harlech, march to glory, Victory is hov'ring o'er ye, Bright eyed freedom stands before ye, Hear ye not her call? At your sloth she seems to wonder, Rend the sluggish bonds asunder, Let the war cry's deaf'ning thunder, Ev'ry foe appal.

Here is the English version of the song, in which you can really hear the garlic and holly part. According to a gentleman who posted it on Youtoob, "This song is called "Rhyfelgyrch Gwŷr Harlech" in Welsh and describes events during the siege of Harlech Castle, a Welsh stronghold, between 1461 and 1468, the longest known siege in the history of the British."

Ya learn something new every day. But, I'll still always think of it as the Men in Garlic song.
Yesterday was the feast of St. Joseph, so, in his honor, we spent the day working on the garden. We had just added some more planter's mix to the beds, so we tidied it all up and smoothed it out. We double dug the long pea-bed, raked the yard and garden area, and dug a trench around our wire tunnel to add more soil to it. We've been trying for years to get something to grow up and over this tunnel the boys built, but the ground is
pure clay. I'm determined to make it work this year, though, so we're just replacing all the soil. We can't decide what kind of vine to put over it, though. We want the children to be able to play in it, so we don't want anything that will attract bees. Any ideas?


I'm looking out the window right now. It's a cloudy day, but no wind, thankfully. Yesterday it was gloriously sunny and warm, but so windy! As I've been looking, one of the puppies which has apparently been wandering out in the fields somewhere has come back with the remnants of a pumpkin. A nasty, half-rotten pumpkin. Bluck. I was just getting ready to go out and do somethig about it, when Mama Bella went over there and grabbed the pup by the tail and pulled it away from the pumpkin and then nudged it over to its brothers and sisters. Which is exactly what I was gonna do.

Check out this messy little fella. They swim in their water bowl, then roll in the dirt. And no matter how hard we try, we can't keep them from tipping over the dog food. This little guy looks contrite, though, doesn't he?

This Sunday being Laetare Sunday, we have a special family event planned. Laetare Sunday is a landmark for us, marking the middle of the Lenten season, and it's the one day of the year that we take the whole family out to a restaurant. For years we went to the Western Sizzlin here in Denver, but that closed down, so we started going to the one outside of Colorado Springs, but that one closed down. Being creatures of habit, we were in mourning over the loss, until we missed our turn on the way to Omaha this fall and stumbled across what appears to be the last surviving Western Sizzlin within driving distance. Wahoo! So, we'll get our steak. And our icecream bar ~ which is the reason the kids like the place. Life is good. And Lent is half over.

This is my new cozy spot. I found this old rocker at an antiques store a couple of years ago and had to have it because it's the same shape and style of a rocker my grandmother had when we were little. Alas, though, it fared poorly in our last move. The arm was jarred and broken and, somehow or another, we'd managed to split the fabric on the back. But, between Paul and Dan, the arm is back in place, and, until I can have it reupholstered, I'm using a table runner to cover the split, and two matching placemats are hiding the worn fabric on the arms. (Can we call that green "repurposing" you suppose?) When we changed my study to a laundry room, we had an extra bookcase that needed to be repurposed, so we put it by the rocker. Add a lamp that had been stored in the cellar, and voila! Perfection. There's something about this chair that everyone loves, and it's location, perched between the kitchen and the dining room is perfect for socializing or relaxing. It's now everybody's favorite hanging-out spot. How did it take me so long to think of doing this?

We've been asking ourselves that question a lot lately. "Why didn't we do this before?" We've owned this house for going on twelve years now. We knew it was a possibility to move the washer and dryer from our bedroom closet out to the mudroom (turned-study), but we always had other uses for our time and money. As it turned out, though, it wasn't nearly as much time or money as we thought it would be -- but we couldn't have done it ten years ago, or probably even five years ago, because we didn't have the missing link that made it do-able. Namely, we didn't have grown-up sons, who'd had enough working experience and problem solving ability to help their Dad make it happen. To everything there is a season, right?

Everything is a process. We needed the impetus of putting the house on the market to get a lot of things done around here. Isn't that how it is? It's happened to us several times now. Every time we sell a house: work like crazy to get everything done we've known all along needed to be done; make everything look particularly pretty; then move and leave it all behind.

We've gotten half way through the process this time, and this last week or so have stood back to look at it all. We like the changes. We're feeling a warm, fuzzy glow as we look about the old place. Are we really moving to something better than what we already have? Or that we could have with a few more judiciously chosen changes?
It's a hard question. The idea of living in a newer, bigger house, with a modern floor plan, and without the problems of an old house is very attractive. We're getting older, our help is growing up and moving out. But, then, it'd be hard to recreate the charm of our hundred-year-old farmhouse, and we've put so much of ourselves into it over the years. Our children have grown up here.... What to do? We've written lists of pros and cons. We've asked St. Philomena and St. Joseph. And, yesterday, on the feast of St. Joseph, it seemed pretty clear. While going through all the reasons why somebody would surely buy this place, we sold ourselves on it. We decided to stay.
Maybe when Dan retires and the kids have all gone we'll get that modern floorplan ~ in a cabin in the mountains! Which I'd like better anyway.

Look what flew over our house this morning!

This doesn't happen every day!

You should've seen us all running out in our socks and pajamas to see it.

(Or, well, maybe you shouldn't have.)




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Thursday, March 19, 2009

Happy Feast of St. Joseph!

Oh, Good St. Joseph...

...whose protection is so great, so strong, so prompt before the Throne of God, I place in thee all my interests and desires. O, St. Joseph, do assist me by thy powerful intercession and obtain for me from thy Divine Son all spiritual blessings; so that having engaged here below thy Heavenly power I may offer my thanksgiving and homage to the most loving of Fathers. O, St. Joseph, I never weary contemplating thee and Jesus asleep in thy arms. I dare not approach while He reposes near thy heart. Press Him in my name, and kiss His fine Head for me, and ask Him to return the kiss when I draw my dying breath. St. Joseph, patron of departing souls, pray for us. Amen.

Happy Nameday

On the feast of the patron of laborers,
to our hardworking sons,
Paul Joseph and Gabriel Joseph,
and their Grandpa, Joseph Daniel.
And all of those special Josephs out there!


Grandpa is making his famous New Year's Eve bouillabaise here. If you're a seafood lover like we are, you'd walk a thousand miles for this stuff. Ohmygoodness, good! We look forward to this meal all year long. It's legendary. (My mouth is watering thinking about it!)

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Guarding the Gold

How do you unwrap these, Mommy?Wait a minute. There's no chocolate?
Mommy.



We've been playing leprechauns this morning. Gabriel (4) has been very intent on hiding the pot of fake gold for the girls to find. It's a very serious business to him, but William (3) just doesnt quite get the point. As soon as Gabe calls out to the girls to come find the gold, William runs to where they hid it, stands over it and yells "Here it is! Here it is!"

Gabriel tried hard all morning to bite back his frustration, but it was very trying. We finally occupied William elsewhere so Gabe could hide his treasure without his little brother seeing, and things went a lot more smoothly. A little later, though, Gabe came to me and, with a very serious little face apologized for his little brother: "You know, Mommy," he said, "William was just being a nice leprechaun. He wants to share his gold." Bless him for working that out.

This Mommy knows where the gold is.

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Shennanigans...

A few things to do today to clebrate the feast of St. Patrick:

* Read about St. Patrick here, here, or here.
* Find some teaching aids for the day here.
* Run over and look for St. Patrick's Day activity on the Leprechaun cam in Tipperary.
* Make some leprechaun traps to catch a leprechaun at your house!

* Color some St. Patrick's Day pages.
* Play leprechauns; have one child wear an Irish hat or green bow tie and hide a treasure (real or represented by a drawing) that the other children have to find. The finder gets to be the Leprechaun next.
* Have some corned beef and colcanon. Make some blarney stones for dessert.

* Go to the Denver Museum of Nature and Science and hunt for the Leprechauns hiding in the dioramas. (If you live in the Denver area and can really do this, ask at the front desk for the cheat sheet!)


If you look reallly closely, you can spot the little guy in this section of a diorama...

(He's right around the middle, next to a tree.)

* Watch The Quiet Man.

* And a toast for the day:

Saint Patrick was a gentleman,

Who through strategy and stealth,

Drove all the snakes from Ireland,

Here’s a toasting to his health.

But not too many toastings

Lest you lose yourself and then

Forget the good Saint Patrick

And see all those snakes again.


'Beannachtam na Feile Padraig!'

Happy St. Patrick's Day, friends!

On the Feast of St. Patrick

The Prayer of St. Patrick
Christ be with me,
Christ within me,
Christ behind me,
Christ before me,
Christ beside me,
Christ to win me,
Christ to comfort and restore me.
Christ beneath me,
Christ above me,
Christ in quiet, and in danger,
Christ in hearts of all that love me,
Christ in mouth of friend and stranger.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Sleepy Woman Monday

What I've been thinking... It seems that the perfect cure for insomnia would have to be:

with your head facing north
in a field of lavender
watching sheep sleeping next to a fence,

If the method works, we might have a money-making proposition here. Someone could set up a sleeping camp! And, even though it's my brainchild, I don't need to be cut in on the profits; I'll just be the guinea pig.

* Anybody got a field of lavender with some sleepy sheep?

What We've been doing... In a coconut shell: Had a great visit with Paul and his lovely fiancee, our Nicole last weekend. While they were in the Denver area, they decided they'll have their wedding reception in a reception hall on top of Lookout Mountain, overlooking the city. It's going to be awesome. OH, and the bridesmaids' dresses are gorgeous! We got to go to a fitting with one of the bridesmaids on Saturday, then out to lunch at Macaroni Grill. Life doesn't get more fun than that, does it? (That's not the bridesmaids' dress pictured on the left, in case you were worried.)

Then, I got to take a little "breather" trip to my happy place in western Colorado on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday of last week. Drove up as far as I could go one day toward Yankee Boy Basin in the San Juans-- until I hit the "Danger! Avalanche!" signs. Had the sense to turn around at that point, but on the way down, caught sight of a little black squirrel and the brightest blue jay and picked a twig off a pine tree and put it in the windshield for an air freshener. Then hiked up to some promontory rocks overlooking the Million Dollar Highway and prayed the rosary. Great company up there. (Don't anybody tell my mother I hiked up there by myself, though, or I'll get a lecture.... And here I am 44 years old; I really should know better. I know, I know. But, I did turn around at the avalanche signs, Mom...)

* No sheep or lavender on the mini vacation. Didn't know about the toe wiggling and tummy rubbing things.

Came home to a busy weekend. Dan got the washer and dryer hooked up in the study-turned-laundry room, and we bought a new dishwasher and installed it. We've been handwashing dishes around here for two or three weeks now and all we girls have to say is Hallelujah! We love you, Josephine Cochran! (That would be Josephine pictured above and to the left, there.)

Michelle and I went thrift shopping Saturday afternoon on the hunt for Easter outfits for the two of us (the rest of the girls are all set already), and I found the cutest skirt, but we couldn't find anything for Michelle -- except a pair of brand new flip flops for $2, three pairs of khaki type capris for summer, and a pretty summer dress. Oh, and a pair of new church slacks and button downs for both William and Gabe, plus green shirts for the little girls to wear on Tuesday. And a badminton set. All for less than fifty dollars. I know it's probably a sign of a sickness, but I'd rather go garage saling or thrifting than to a mall any day of the week!

But, go figure, I lay awake Saturday night thinking about Shell's and my thrift shopping prowess and how I need to go next time and target some new bedside tables. And how I want to arrange my garden beds, and how I need some new planters' mix on my salad beds, and whether I should plant sweet peas or real peas on the children's wire tunnel...

Couldn't manage to think of nothing. Didn't even get as far as thinking about thinking of nothing.
What I'm doing right this minute... Sitting here in my blue jeans, green knit blouse and pink slippers, eating green M&Ms, while Michelle watches an old episode of The Twilight Zone in the background. It's Sunday night and Lent begins again in fifteen minutes.

I just gave Michelle the rest of the bag of M&Ms. I'm stuffed, anyway. We had corned beef, colcanon, and bread pudding for dinner tonight, and watched a favorite old movie, The War of the Buttons , one I cannot whole-heartedly endorse for children for its poor imitative behavior (and one "close-yer-eyes" scene of a children's prank), but one that has a special place in our hearts, nonetheless.
I'm thinking about getting a little cup of chamomile tea to sip... I'm feeling annoyingly wide awake.

Got a Hawaiian Breeze plug-in air freshener in the living room, but no lavender.

Hang the dang sheep.

I think I'll go get my rosary and imagine I'm on top of the world in the San Juan mountains, and try to find that good company again.
'Night, All.

Monday, March 9, 2009

Sunday, March 8, 2009

100 Things We Learned the Hard Way

The last time I added to these was a year ago. My, how time flies! (Numbers 1-70 can be found here.)

71. If you need to mow the lawn, it will rain; if you need the lawn watered, it won't rain.

72. The ceramic terra cotta tiles you were so proud to have installed in the mid '90s will not be a selling point in the early 2000s.

73. The level of restless persnicketiness of any group of small children will always be in precise inverse proportion to the level of listless irritability of the caretaker.

74. Cheap Vacuum Cleaners Suck. (Well, actually, they should, but they don't. )

75. St. Joseph and St. Thomas Aquinas are sitting at the heavenly workbench just waiting to be called on to help with "guy projects" like plumbing and car mechanics. St. Martha, St. Zita, and St. Anne are always hovering around the kitchen. If we don't get their help, it's our own fault for not asking.

76. A bar of soap clogging the toilet will eventually dissolve.

77. Standing on the sidelines watching our oldest child preparing to graduate from college and get married is less like watching a dive off the cliffs in Acapulco than it is watching a ship being launched into a harbor.





78. But... one child's experience never determines another's.
Sometimes launchings are more like this:





79. Painful but worthwhile practices: double-digging a new garden plot, seasonal closet cleaning, dentist appointments, any kind of cleansing diet, potty training, piano lessons, Lent.

80. Life is like my mother's made-from-scratch soups. It pays to trust the creator; just dig in without expectations and don't ask questions. Some of the ingredients might be mysterious, but they almost always blend together marvelously, and there is no doubt that it's all good for you.

Saturday, March 7, 2009

The Feast of the Dumb Ox

St. Thomas Aquinas!
One of our great Doctors of the Church
For a short bio, you can find The Runaway Abbot, by G.K. Chesterton, online!
To read some of which God, Himself, told Thomas, "You have written well of me," go here.

Happy Nameday, William Thomas!

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Quick Takes

1. Lots of comings and goings around here. Kevin drove Jon and Dominic back to school Sunday, stayed for a few days, and is on his way back tonight. On Monday, my youngest brother, Dave, headed down to Georgia, where he is relocating. And, our oldest son, Paul, and his fiancee, Nicole are making their way over the mountains tomorrow to spend some of their spring break with us.

St. Christopher knows he's on call. Everyone's trips so far have been safe and successful. Except that Kevvy called today to tell us that our minivan (which he took to ferry the boys back to Omaha) is acting up.
Oh joy.
2. Our car's apparent ailments notwithstanding, there is good news on the automotive front in our immediate circles. In an economy where the car industry is covering its ears to muffle the rumor of death knells, both my sister and son, Paul, have just gotten loans for new cars. (Who was it that said that couldn't be done?) Nina drove her new Buick over here the other day to show off all its bells and whistles, and Paul is now on the look-out for just the right car. So we sent Paul to call on the gentleman pictured on the right.
We've had a custom in our family for many years of asking help from St. Thomas Aquinas in finding new vehicles, or when faced with any kind of car crisis, and he's always come through extraordinarily quickly. It seems that automobile requests perk up his ears. We've come to the conclusion that if he lived in our day, St. Thomas would have been the consumate car guy. Surely, his methodical and logical mind would have easily grasped car mechanics. Can't you just picture him leaning under the hood of a car in his monk's habit and tonsure, wrench in hand?
We're thinking Paul will at least have a good lead by the weekend.
We always pray St. Thomas' Prayer to Know God's Will, btw, when looking for a car (you can find it in the side bar), but there's a really good one here, too. St. Thomas' feast day is Saturday, so teachers and students (over whom he has special patronage) especially take note! His heavenly influence is powerful on his day.
3. We've been hearing about all the snowy weather in many parts of the United States, and even rumors that some people are starting to doubt the nonfiction status of global warming. (Ahem.) So, I hesitate to mention it, because I don't want to sound like we're bragging, but.... Gee, guys, our weather has been glorious here in Colorado! It's been in the high 60s and low 70s for over a week now. The sun has been shining, white fluffy clouds drifting across an azure sky. The children spend all afternoon outdoors and come in at dinnertime filthy and sweating. The puppies are romping in the yard. Our daffodils are sprouting -- and I'm watching the tree buds nervously. Our poor Colorado trees have taken a beating in the last few years with droughts and blizzards alternatively. Our poor old cottonwoods are shadows of their former selves; the last thing we need is an early budding, followed by a hard freeze. But, it's been nice to have an unexpected "airing out," regardless... And we've had plenty of wind to do it, I might add!
I fully expect there's a blizzard on its way,though, to keep us honest.
4. Seriously, though, we've had more important things to worry about around here than global warming: A) Theresa and Michelle are both out of books to read. (You would laugh at this if you saw how many books we have...) B) Anna is frustrated because she can't get her bangs to part on the side like mine and Cathy's (They just don't stay!). C) Gabriel thinks there are "woof-coyotes" sneaking around the trees when he's in bed at night. (It's just Bella, Gabe!) And, D) William tells us that trains burp. And if a train is burping... well, what has it been eating? Hmmm... (Not sure how to answer that one.
5. We were so sad to hear about the passing of Paul Harvey this past week. Personally, Mr. Harvey, a man I never met, has been a part of my life since I was a small girl. I distinctly remember a fascinating family discussion about spontaneous combustion sparked by a Paul Harvey story when I couldn't have been more than ten years old. And only two and a half weeks ago, coming home in the car, Kevin and I were riveted by a tribute to the human heart read by Paul Harvey on St. Valentine's Day. We liked it so much, we looked it up on the internet for the whole family to listen to when we got home. (I'm looking for the transcript for that and'll share it if I find it...)
Paul Harvey's daily newscasts and his Rest of the Story editorials have always been a bright spot in the world of the mass media. His news selections were always fairly and completely given, wholesomely presented, and eloquently written, and I wish I had a collection of all his Rest of the Story gems to use as a supplement to history lessons, and as an example of good writing for our English classes. He was the consumate craftsman of his trade. But, the best thing about Paul Harvey was that, by all accounts, he was a good man. We'll miss him. May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
6. Have you ever felt the hand of God on you? I mean, we always know that He is intimately connected to us and involved in our lives, but, have you ever, almost literally, felt His hand on your shoulder turning you in the direction He wants you to go? Our spiritual lives have been like that lately. I've been interested in St. Louis de Montfort's Total Consecration to the Blessed Mother for a few years now, but have just not been able to pull the trigger on the devotion. I think I've just been a little overwhelmed by the commitment of it. But, the idea has always stayed somewhere just below surface. In fact, I recently found that I've managed to inadvertently buy two copies of the Total Consecration book at some time during my ponderings. And those two books have both somehow resurfaced and found their way into my dining room bookcase. On Ash Wednesday, Dan and I were talking about what Lenten reading we should start, and the image of those two books rose to my mind, so I suggested that maybe we ought to both read them and decide how we feel about the notion of the Consecration to Mary. So, on Wednesday night, we both read the introductions to the book.
Then last Saturday, we had the blessing of getting to attend a Day of Recollection given by a visiting priest at our parish, and what do you suppose his talk was on? You guessed it: Total Consecration to Our Lady. And this wonderful, engaging priest based a thread of his talks on G.K.Chesterton, to boot.You know how I love GKC, don't you? The Blessed Mother couldn't have hooked me better than if she'd orchestrated the whole day just for my benefit. Which, of course, we all know she didn't. But, it's uncanny how things happen sometimes, isn't it?
7. And, finally, I just wanted to share what my sweet husband brought home for me yesterday.




I think I'll keep him.

(No, it wasn't a peace offering! Sheesh! )


Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Breaking for a moment from my Lenten computer calm...

I had to take a minute to recognize St. Casimir on his feast day with his favorite song.
There seems to be some debate as to whether he actually wrote this, translated it or what. I'm sure, regardless, that it must please him to hear it sung on his feast day!


Translation:
Daily, Daily Sing to Mary

Daily, daily sing to Mary,
Sing, my soul, her praises due.
All her feasts, her actions worship
With the heart's devotion true.
Lost in wond'ring contemplation,
Be her Majesty confess'd.
Call her Mother, call her Virgin,
Happy Mother, Virgin blest.
*
She is mighty to deliver.
Call her, trust her lovingly.
When the tempest rages round thee,
She will calm the troubled sea.
Gifts of heaven she has given,
Noble Lady, to our race.
She, the Queen, who decks her subjects
With the light of God's own grace.
*
Sing, my tongue, the Virgin's trophies
Who for us her Maker bore.
For the curse of old inflicted,
Peace and blessing to restore.
Sing in songs of peace unending,
Sing the world's majestic Queen.
Weary not nor faint in telling.
All the gifts she gives to men.
* Prayers going up today for two of our favorite Religious, Fr. Casimir, and Sr. Kazimiera!
(Changed the version of the Omni Die, because the immodest painting of Adam and Eve that it began with really bothered us... And we couldn't find another besides this venerable gentleman singing and playing. We wish we could understand what he says after he sings. Anyone know?)

Sunday, March 1, 2009

A Mother's Quiz


MY CHILDREN

Do my children say their morning and night prayers?

Are my children trained to be polite at all times?

Do I teach my children to be good losers at play?

Do I fail to recognize faults in my children because they are mine?

Are my children learning to be calm when things go wrong because I myself am a patient mother?

Are my children learning to be charitable and tolerant of the faults of others because I am charitable and tolerant?

Have I fulfilled my obligations of instructing my children regarding holy purity, or have I allowed them to shift for themselves, getting their ideas from other boys and girls, bad movies and pictures, ungodly literature?


MY HOME

Is Christ the center of my life and of all that is done in my home?

Is there a picture of Christ or His Mother in my living room and not just in the bedrooms?

Is there a holy water font in each bedroom of my home?

Do the members of my family pray grace before and after meals?

Do my children know the Angelus because we recite it before grace in our home at noon and in the evening?

Would Christ approve of the magazines and comic books I allow into my home?

Is my phone used to receive and spread noble thoughts?


H/T Esther, from Elena