So, I guess I'll have to show my true colors... I'm a Halloween Grinch. You know the kind; the ones that are out to spoil everyone's fun.
But I'm not furry and green and rarely sneer. That kind of Grinch fits right in at Halloween.
Instead, I'm the kind of Grinch that stands out like a sore thumb this time of year in most gatherings; I have little homemade feather wings, and a foil pipecleaner halo... and I pass out holy cards.
Almost every holiday has its controversy, I'm afraid. Except maybe St. Patrick's Day ... which... I guess you could object to as it's become just an excuse to go to an Irish pub and sample too much Guinness...
Or, well, there is St. Valentine's Day. But, I guess you could object to that feast day evolving into an excuse to flirt, couldn't you? I can't deny these are both abuses I'm afraid I may have been guilty of in the past, myself. Let's face it, it's just human nature to want to celebrate.
The Church in its wisdom has always understood this. In a nutshell, we need to relieve stress with periodic partying. And, with this need in mind, when they came to a new culture to teach and convert, missionaries strove to take native celebrations and convert their meanings and subtly adapt their trappings to Christian themes. They purposely placed Church holidays around the approximate times of important events in the life of Christ, but also to coincide with nonchristian celebrations they wished to replace. And they were almost universally successful in this quest.
Not a wholesome lot, the druids.
I think most of us Catholic moms do try to downplay the materialistic trappings that have come to smother the real meanings of each of our Catholic holidays ~ holy days. But, Halloween may be the one that is hardest to overcome. Out of all of the holidays, I think Hallween has reverted most to its pagan beginnings. And, while most of the holidays have caved into crass commercialization and saecularization to some extent or another, none of them has fallen into such an unwholesome set of new traditions, as Halloween has. Let's face it, much of it is downright demonic, and unapologetically so. But, we excuse it because it's an American tradition, and, well, we did it when we were kids, and we turned out alright...
And, seriously, if we don't dress our children as witches or devils, it should be alright, shouldn't it?
Well, if the Church thought it was OK, I don't think they would have replaced the Feast of the Dead with something as purposely full of joy as the Feast of All Saints, for one thing. I think the popes purposely picked something as polar opposite these particular pagan celebrations as they could in this instance. And with good reason.
Not every child will be negatively affected by a few days' journey into a dark world, perhaps. But what about the ones who will be? Highly sensitive children are not even the ones that are most at risk here, but children who might have kindled an unhealthy interest in dark matters, and, Heaven forbid, eventually come to experiment with the
occult. You don't think this could happen to your child? Read the statistics on the rise in numbers of teens
joining the wicca cult just since the JK Rowlings books have been published. The devil is a busy little loser. He'll use every opportunity he can get.
Evil matters should not be taken lightly. And that is exactly the purpose of Halloween as it's practiced today. "Innocent" fun.... dabbling in evil matters. Your sweet little girl may be dressed up like a princess, but she's walking on the same sidewalk with "witches" and "ghouls" and "ax murderers."
Why glorify this kind of thing? At best, it's just a big, ugly distraction from a far better celebration. One that they can still dress up for. And the costume thing may even be beside the point, because as we all know, Halloween is really all about the candy.
It's not hard for any parish, or group of families, or just a single family to whip up a night of fun, with candy and games, in celebration of the Feast of All Saints. Seriously. The amazingly talented and energetic women I see in the wide world of Catholics are more than up to the task. Many of us already do this annually.
Now, can rejecting the Trick or Treat scene make you an oddball in your neighborhood? Well, sure, it may very well. Isn't that great? We should be oddballs in this world, for goodness sake! If you're not an oddball in this saecular humanistic society, you're not living your faith, plain and simple. Why shouldn't our children learn this?
The tradition of celebrating the saints on this day instead of following in the path of the rest of the world is a real life example to your children of your priorities as a family of God.
And good grief, it's not like an All Saints' Day Party is a sacrifice! You can make it just as much fun, more fun, we think, than the typical Halloween outing! But, instead of being about darkness, it's all about light. And it's in the safety of your church hall or someone's home, where I think most of us parents would rather the children be, anyway.
You, too, can be one of those "obsessive Catholics."
Just like the saints.
(Aw, come on! It's fun!)
" Yuyum" (almost 2 now!) has taken, just in the last two or three days, to manipulating and organizing, in the most unusual ways. See the concentration here, as he arranges bits of cheese into patterns on the fall tablecloth. Definitely a tactile in the making. He sat there, arranging cheese for about a half hour! That's major attention span for this little whirlwind, let me tell you! Isn't it fun to watch them developing talents and interest?
Daddy, with little Gabe on board and all the girls plus William. We figure that, including me, if you can count the pure souls of our under-seven crowd who prayed today, that's seven sets of plenary indulgences!
A view of the San Juans over the gravestones.
We hope it's not considered disprespecful for a three year old to play peek-a-boo from behind the tombstones. He did always want to know, "What does this sign say, Mommy?" And when we told him to say,"Bless Thomas" or "Bless Beatrice" he was always happy to do so ~ over his shoulder, as he ran to the next tombstone.
We went on a beautiful fall drive today while our house was supposed to be in the midst of a buyer's inspection. (Don't even get me started on how rude it is for people to schedule this kind of a thing and not show up! Grrr.) Anyway, we made the most of our day, and wound up high above Hotchkiss, Colorado (those are the West Elks in the distance there) in a mesa-top cemetery. We hope that we were able to pray some souls into Heaven today! The views from up top there were very distracting!
Then, we played the "Path to Heaven" game we made. 
Let's get out there and and be heroes to the Souls in Purgatory! They, in turn, will pray for us here in the Church Militant. There is no greater service you can do a human being. And you'll benefit, too!
Isn't it a wonderful thing to think about the fact that we very well may have relatives and friends that have already made it to Heaven? The Church celebrates today, not only the great saints that have been listed by the Church, but also the millions of souls that are in Heaven whose names we don't know.
I refuse to look at the clock to see.
So, I guess I'll have to show my true colors... I'm a Halloween Grinch. You know the kind; the ones that are out to spoil everyone's fun.
The Feast of Christ the King was established by Pope Pius XI during the horrors of World War I, to serve as a reminder to all mankind of the true source of and solution for peace in our world. There is no better time than now with unrest still as worldwide, on battlefields and in hearts, to remember that there will never be peace unless the world surrenders its heart to the reign of Christ the King.
31) You haven't succeeded in preparing the house for important company (or a showing when you're selling), until you've broken a jar of pickles in the kitchen.
