Now, though, I've come to love and appreciate the Sorrowful Mysteries. I'm not sure when it happened -- it was probably a slow growing realization -- but having lived through a good sampling of both joy and sorrow for five and a half decades now, I don't see the two so much as a contrast -- one good and the other bad -- but as inextricable puzzle pieces, dependent upon one another. Maybe it's because I've experienced enough to see for myself how cross-bearing isn't hard because it's a love thing, but that it's a love thing because it's hard. Does that make sense? And the bigger the cross toted with love, the bigger the joy that's also connected with it -- or maybe joy is not really the exact word: it's more like satisfaction or rightness; something deeper and more lasting than joy, really. Impossible to explain, but I think finding out for yourself -- often the hard way -- the value of crosses -- is how you bear them. And how they bear you. Fought and resented they crush you; accepted and loved, they build strength for the long haul.
Friday, February 12, 2021
Five Random Thoughts
Now, though, I've come to love and appreciate the Sorrowful Mysteries. I'm not sure when it happened -- it was probably a slow growing realization -- but having lived through a good sampling of both joy and sorrow for five and a half decades now, I don't see the two so much as a contrast -- one good and the other bad -- but as inextricable puzzle pieces, dependent upon one another. Maybe it's because I've experienced enough to see for myself how cross-bearing isn't hard because it's a love thing, but that it's a love thing because it's hard. Does that make sense? And the bigger the cross toted with love, the bigger the joy that's also connected with it -- or maybe joy is not really the exact word: it's more like satisfaction or rightness; something deeper and more lasting than joy, really. Impossible to explain, but I think finding out for yourself -- often the hard way -- the value of crosses -- is how you bear them. And how they bear you. Fought and resented they crush you; accepted and loved, they build strength for the long haul.
Thursday, February 11, 2021
On the Feast of Our Lady of Lourdes
The account of the apparitions of Our Lady of Lourdes in St. Bernadette's own words:
I had gone down one day with two other girls to the bank of the river Gave when suddenly I heard a kind of rustling sound. I turned my head toward the field by the side of the river but the trees seemed quite still and the noise was evidently not from them. Then I looked up and caught sight of the cave where I saw a lady wearing a lovely white dress with a bright belt. On top of each of her feet was a pale yellow rose, the same colour as her rosary beads.
At this I rubbed my eyes, thinking I was seeing things, and I put my hands into the fold of my dress where my rosary was. I wanted to make the sign of the cross but for the life of me I couldn’t manage it and my hand just fell down. Then the lady made the sign of the cross herself and at the second attempt I managed to do the same, though my hands were trembling. Then I began to say the rosary while the lady let her beads slip through her fingers, without moving her lips. When I stopped saying the Hail Mary, she immediately vanished.
I asked my two companions if they had noticed anything, but they said no. Of course they wanted to know what I was doing and I told them that I had seen a lady wearing a nice white dress, though I didn’t know who she was. I told them not to say anything about it, and they said I was silly to have anything to do with it. I said they were wrong and I came back next Sunday, feeling myself drawn to the place….
The third time I went the lady spoke to me and asked me to come every day for fifteen days. I said I would and then she said that she wanted me to tell the priests to build a chapel there. She also told me to drink from the stream. I went to the Gave, the only stream I could see. Then she made me realise she was not speaking of the Gave and she indicated a little trickle of water close by. When I got to it I could only find a few drops, mostly mud. I cupped my hands to catch some liquid without success and then I started to scrape the ground. I managed to find a few drops of water but only at the fourth attempt was there a sufficient amount for any kind of drink. The lady then vanished and I went back home.
I went back each day for two weeks and each time, except one Monday and one Friday, the lady appeared and told me to look for a stream and wash in it and to see that the priests build a chapel there. I must also pray, she said, for the conversion of sinners. I asked her many times what she meant by that, but she only smiled. Finally with outstretched arms and eyes looking up to heaven she told me she was the Immaculate Conception.
During the two weeks she told me three secrets but I was not to speak about them to anyone and so far I have not.
Saint Marie Bernadette Soubirous, Epistle ad P. Gondrand, 1861, cf. Les ecrits de Sainte
Bernadette, Paris, 1961, pp. 53-59.
* Easy paper roses tutorial -- to make yellow roses to place at the feet of our holy images of the Blessed Mother.
* A to- purchased (inexpensive) PDF booklet with the history of the day and a lovely cut-out and color diorama of Our Lady and St. Bernadette at the Grotto. (Permissible to buy one and copy off several if need be for several children.) This one is really quite pretty -- not "cartoony," iykwim.
& Approximately a dozen years of AWTY posts with prayers, history, trivia, photos, and various thoughts surrounding this feast day, a special one to me since my middle name is Bernadette. If you just want to go on a little stroll down some rabbit trails with me following my patron saint.
Monday, February 8, 2021
Simple Woman Monday: February 8th
What I'm seeing... the house is brightening up finally as the sun reaches the back room here where I'm sitting this morning. Our east windows are shaded by the front porch, so it always takes a while for the light to come in, unfortunately. Dan's and my favorite pastime these days is penciling out drawings of our little dream cottage -- and I'm not sure how structurally sound it'll be considering we both want walls and walls of windows.
What I'm thinking... Spring can't come soon enough.
What I'm planning... Now that Iowa has officially lifted all mandates leaving restrictions to individual business owners (which is how it should have been all along), I'm hoping to go play putt putt with Dan this weekend. Or maybe go bowling. Dan's been in California all week, helping support his Mom and Dad -- and I miss him like crazy! You'd think we'd be sick of each other that now that we're together practically 24/7 since he works from home, but it's the opposite! (I'm hoping we'll have the weekend together, at any rate... :/ If my brother's back surgery gets scheduled for this week, I'll be going to Denver to help out my brother for a while.)
Quote I'm pondering... "If a man and a woman marry in order to be companions on the journey to heaven, then their union will bring them great joy." -- St. John Chrysostom
Picture thought for the day:
Saturday, February 6, 2021
1921
One Hundred Years Ago...
* the average house cost $7,019
* the BBC was founded
* Camel cigarettes appeared, and for the first time women in general began to take up the habit about this time
* America was introduced to Betty Crocker baked goods, Eskimo Pies, and Mounds, Baby Ruth, and Oh Henry candy bars!.
* we also started our love affair with fast food when the world's first hamburger chain, White Castle, opened for business
(Note: not a period of growth in healthful diet! Good thing that sanitation, at least, had so vastly improved by this time!)
* bread cost 10 cents a loaf (not pre-sliced yet)
* gas was 11 cents a gallon
* milk was 58 cents a quart
* and COFFEE cost .35 a pound, whole bean or .15 a cup at the neighborhood diner
X Marks the Spot
And here's where I qualify for Sepia Saturday today! (Wink!) If you love coffee like I do and it's a special treat to have a coffee-shop-style latte, but you're sensitive to dairy products, here's a coffee hack: Xanthum gum! A binder and thickening agent common in prepared foods, it's derived from the fermentation of glucose and sucrose (to put it simply), and is considered generally safe as an additive. You'll find it as a typical ingredient in gluten-free products, it's in baked goods and pasta and can be found in sauces and salad dressings as a thickening agents. It's commonly found in ice cream, too, to prevent the formation of ice crystals.
Check out the recipe for dairy free lattes on this video! *Don't be freaked out when the video producers explain the bacteria aspect of Xanthum Gum; gross as it sounds, you've been ingesting it your whole life, undoubtedly! (Bob's Red Mill supplies Xanthum Gum if you want to have a go at this latte!)
Coffee Lovers Coffee Cake
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| What we'd be wearing while we drank our coffee and ate our coffee cake! |
1/3 cup sugar
4 tsp instant coffee granules
1-11/2 tsp ground cinnamon
Batter
3 Tbs butter, softened
1/2 cup sugar
1 large egg, room temperature
1 tsp vanilla extract
1 1/4 cups all-purpose flour
1 tsp baking powder, 1/2 tsp baking soda,
1/8 tsp salt 1 cup plain yogurt
2 Tbs chopped walnuts
Instructions* Preheat oven to 350°. Mix sugar, coffee granules and cinnamon. In a large bowl, beat
butter and sugar until crumbly, about 2 minutes. Beat in egg and vanilla. In another bowl, whisk together flour, baking powder, baking soda and salt; add to butter mixture alternately with yogurt, beating just until blended. (Batter will be thick.)
* Spread half of the batter evenly into an 8" square baking pan coated with cooking spray; sprinkle with half the coffee mixture. Top with remaining batter; sprinkle with remaining coffee mixture. Cut through batter with knife to swirl. Sprinkle with nuts.
* Bake 25 -30 minutes, until toothpick inserted in center comes out clean, 25 - 30 minutes.
Enjoy!
Run over to Sepia Saturday to find out what other spots the letter X marks in history!
Thursday, February 4, 2021
Thankful Thursday, February 4th
2) Another thing I'm glad of: our chalkboard door and our little black cabinet. Seems sort of trivial, I guess, but these are little mood boosters for me! Especially now that my duties are so curtailed, I really appreciate the creative planning that goes into these for each new season: the hunt for quotes and art and tchotchkes for the cabinet, then the rendering of the ideas, and the little mental lift every time I walk by them when they're finished. It's a concrete creative project with concrete results. Nothing cyber about it!
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| Certain children of mine are wincing over that dangling preposition there. It is perfectly acceptable, kids, in informal writing -- and in fact preferable when following the "non-dangling rule" makes you sound like Yoda. I refer y'all once again to this article. |
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| Almost time to change the cabinet theme -- but not quite. I'm thinking I'll pull together artifacts and wallpaper to make a St. Valentine's/Coming Spring theme next. |
3) Not that being cyber is necessarily an evil! Heaven knows, I utilize technology as much or more than anybody, but, I'm more-than-average thankful for the internet these days -- and really do appreciate the easy communication that has been afforded by smartphone apps. Say what you want about the downsides of the internet (and there are many!), we've all been grateful this week for the ability to keep up almost instantaneously with the constantly developing news surrounding my Father-in-law's heart attack on our family app.
* In the way of being an update: if anyone wanders by her heard about this and wonders: Dan's Dad has recovered almost miraculously considering the magnitude of the attack -- and for that we are MOST thankful for all the prayers that have flooded heaven for him! He's is expected to be able to leave the hospital today or tomorrow, Deo gratias!
* Grateful, too, for all of you -- those who just pop in (I see you in the stats, you know!) -- but especially you dear souls who occasionally say Hi. These days, that's like winning the lottery in blog world!
* And the perpetual PS on all Thankful Thursdays:
I thank God for all His goodnesses every single day -- even when they come in the form of crosses. Nobody knows what I need more than He does.
Finit
Tuesday, February 2, 2021
On Candlemas Day
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| Not our church, but the same exact beauty. Timeless. |
the candlelight in the early morning. Then I stopped over to see Cathy and baby Chloe (bearing coffee). And now I'm home gearing up to pack up the Creche. It's a little sad to have the joyful season of Christmas behind us -- but, on the bright side, those of us who are ready for some green trees and garden work might be happy to know that this date also marks the halfway point of the winter season! Woohoo!
In America, today is popularly known as Groundhog Day, but little might most guess, the origin of the groundhog shadow thing is actually an adaptation of the Catholic "weather predicting" tradition we see on the Ember Days (described here). Here's one place to find it in history, an old English proverb held that:
Here's another one from the German tradition:
Spring is not yet near.
Keep Calm and Make a List
Top Ten Facts of Empty Nesting
1) Anything amiss around here, like lost reading glasses, or water tracked across the floor, or cabinets left open -- is blamed on the dog. Don't feel sorry for him, though; he's good with it. Whoever does the blaming always loves up on him like a co-conspirator. We're starting to think Dawsey may actually be leaving cabinets open so he can get belly rubs.
2) We can, for the first time in our lives, actually walk across the mudroom without tripping over shoes. It's weird. Now we just trip over air out of habit.
3) Sunday afternoons, which used to be all about trying to get a moment of peace away from the hoards of children -- are now exercises in getting time with our children. We brag to each other about how many of the kids we talked to or texted with on Sunday afternoons. (It's also open house for our dear girls from Mater Dei's St. Philomena boarding house right down the street!)
4) In our immediate stores, we now have less food -- but better food. At least to us -- because we eat a lot of salads. There's a certain amount of regret, though, that we couldn't buy the choice cuts of steak we enjoy now for all ten kids all those years, but, hey: they can buy their own now, right? And they'll appreciate it all the more! (I said regret, not guilt. ;) )5) Neither of us can remember what we've told each of the kids, so everyone gets the same information from both of us or one of us several times -- or not at all. (Sorry, kids.)
6) We can get ready for Church and legitimately be out the door in fifteen minutes. But we usually take a half hour. (Imagine.)
7) We are practically paralyzed nowadays by having to entertain by ourselves, we
're so used to having the well-oiled machinery of the kid-team kick into motion before an event. We never used to even have to say what needed to be done; the bottom five children, most especially, were like high end caterers. We miss that! If anyone wonders why we don't entertain as much... that's why!
when everyone was home, I did at least two loads a day, every day but Sunday. Now when the two youngest boys are home, it goes back up to two loads, two or three times a week.
9) We've started to lose our goalie-like parenting reflexes -- physically, anyway. If one of the toddler grandbabies is falling off the couch, there'd better be a parent or auntie or uncley nearby. But if you want a situationally pertinent lecture on any given topic, Dan and I, both, are still quick on the draw, kids. We'll be passing around the lectures on our deathbeds, count on it.
10) We miss the crazy busy days of big-family parenting like a waitress misses a St. Valentine's Day Saturday night shift. Through the thick of it, we were so busy that we were forced into top form, and the whole thing passed by crazy fast -- we barely had time to catch our breath -- and there were tons of near-misses and goofs, but it was kinda fun, too, and there was lots of love and tender moments -- and, throughout, great tips -- little perks! -- but we're really really glad to put our feet up now that we're done with it.
Monday, February 1, 2021
Simple Woman Monday, February 1st
What I'm hearing... a home makeover show running in the background (though I haven't really been paying attention to it).
What I'm thinking... I need to be a good girl and not excuse eating off-diet just because Dan's not here. I am a grown up. I do know better.
What I'm planning... Cleaning out the pub this week. My word, what a mess out there! Not only has it been the bottom of the don't-know-where-to-put-it funnel since Christmas, but it's also served as a workshop for I don't know how many projects-half-finished. Ugh. But we need to utilize every inch of storage space in there since we're clearing out all the bedrooms upstairs for Dominic and Monica and family to move in come Easter. This is going to be quite a project. Tetris. It's going to be Tetris on a large scale. Also need to take down the Creche and the last remaining Christmas decorations. Candlemas Day is Tuesday already!
Quote for the day...
From St. John Bosco, whose feast day was yesterday:
"O my children, how great is Divine Providence! How generous God is to us! How much He loves us! Let us always be grateful and good! Let us love Him and never offend Him! In turn He will always provide for our needs."
Picture thought for the day:
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| Unplanned. (I was laughing. They didn't think it was as funny as I did.) |
Friday, January 29, 2021
Celebrating the Liturgical Year: February at a Glance
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| February is the month of The Sacred Passion |
1) snow and/or
2) mud;
3) diet food (salad and beets and cabbage), or
4) broken diet resolutions from last month.
It's one of those perfectly appropriate happenstances (definitely not an accident in the Divine plan) that Ash Wednesday almost always falls somewhere in February. This can be a good thing, of course, practically speaking, citing February Feature #4 (above). There's nothing better than accountability to God for adding a spark of conscience to all those New Year's Resolutions! But, still. (==I sigh==) Lent. I get how a person might like the Long Forty for its effects -- but, seriously, you're in line for sainthood behind St. Simon Stylites if you charge gleefully into Lent because you actually enjoy the process. That's tantamount to enjoying getting your teeth cleaned. Or childbirth. The results are great! Getting to the results, not so much.We've always told the kids: if you like Lent, you're not doing it right.
And we're only half kidding. (Or maybe one quarter kidding,) There are Lenten sacrifices and there are Lenten Sacrifices. Giving up enough to make it a challenge isn't fun. Giving up chocolate if you rarely have chocolate does not impress me. Sorry. But, giving up coffee when your friends don't recognize you without a coffee cup in your hand? That's something. Something hard. And, like my Marine son tells his children, "Doing a hard thing is a good thing!" And doing a hard thing out of love for God is a great thing! (I can say this right now as I have a coffee cup at my elbow, but ask me again a month from now how impressed I am with myself.... It pains, the very thought.)Typical of God's wisdom, too, is that the Church, which encourages us to make these extra sacrifices during this penitential season, cautions us not to go overboard and gives us the Lord's Day off every week. And let me tell you, after a rigorous week of good Catholic Lenting, a Sunday of innocent off-Lent pleasures is the best thing that happens all year! Man, oh man, does that cuppa coffee after Mass on a Lenten Sunday taste good!
The word Lent may conjure in my minds words like Dull and Dreary and Painful and Prickly, but there's consolation, looking forward to a day of sweet relief every seven days -- followed, after forty days, by the Big Blast of Awesome Wonder at Easter! There's nothing better than Easter after a good hard Lent! Nothing on earth! I imagine it's a little tiny glimpse of what heaven must be like after a long life of frustration and deprivation and sacrifices aimed in the right direction. Times a bazillion. Something to look forward to at the end of our days, hopefully, and if we make for ourselves a good challenging Lent, we get to enjoy the satisfaction of a job well done -- on April 4th this year!So, anyway... What to be thinking about in the meantime, at the beginning of February: Yeah. Lent is coming. That's the first thing. But that's not all. Here's a quick look ahead to all the other moving parts of the Liturgical Year:
February 1st
St. Ignatius of Antioch
If you've ever heard an allusion (in early Christian writings) to a man known as Theophorus, this is St. Ignatius of Antioch. The third bishop of Antioch (modern day Turkey), St. Ignatius was a native of Syria, but died in Rome between 98 and 117 AD. After a life of trials and persecutions as an important leader of the Eastern Church, he continuously exhorted his people to have courage in the face of trial and very possible death. Always preparing himself for the same likelihood during the great persecutions at that time and expecting trouble in an upcoming visit to the capital city of the empire, he wrote to the Christians of Rome begging them to not try to be heroes in his defense and deprive him of his own opportunity of martyrdom.As much as the Roman Christians may have wanted to save the pious and courageous bishop, they obeyed his request and Ignatius was martyred soon after arriving in Rome. His relics were brought home to Antioch and translated twice within Syria before ending up at St. Clement's Church in Rome, where they rest to this day.
- We recognize a tree by its fruit, and we ought to be able to recognize a Christian by his action.
- Do not have Jesus Christ on your lips, and the world in your heart.
St. Brigid of Ireland
* A thorough overview of St. Brigid (with the slightest N.O. intro) can be found --- Here.
* She is the patroness of: babies, blacksmiths, boatmen, brewers, cattle, poultry raisers, children born out of wedlock, children living with abuse, dairy workers, the state of Florida, the city of Kildare, Ireland, fugitives, mariners, midwives, Religious Sisters, poets, printing presses, sailors, scholars, travelers, watermen.
* During one of her travels, St. Brigid went to visit a dying pagan chieftain. As she sat near his bed, she picked up some rushes on the floor and began weaving a Cross. He asked her about what she was doing and, in explaining, she told him about Christ and the meaning of the Cross. He came to faith and was baptized. (As per Fish Eaters) How to make St. Brigid's Crosses out of wheat straw or grasses -- Here.
February 2nd
The Feast of the Purification
* Aka: Candlemas Day! The official closing ceremony of Christmastide. Every little thing about this feast day from origin and ceremony to pancakes and groundhogs --- Here and Here. Candlemas Day and "Churching" --- Here.
* Hopefully, you've already been able to procure some beeswax candles and will remember to take them with you to Mass today! These candles should have a place in every Catholic home; they are used during Sick Calls, Extreme Unction, funerals (when Baptismal candles are unavailable), during storms and inclement weather of any kind, and for private devotions after sunset on All Saints' Day.
February 3rd
St. Blaise
* Blessing of Throats Day! (Wash behind the kids' ears this morning!)
* The story of this popular saint, with the script of the ceremony, misc. facts and prayers --- Here.
* St. Blaise is one of the Fourteen Holy Helpers. A venerable old Catholic list from tradition, patronage of these fourteen saints goes back to the Black Plague when their intercession was especially called upon.
The 14 Holy Helpers
St. George, Martyr, April 23
St. Blaise, Bishop and Martyr, February 3
St. Pantaleon, Martyr, July 27
St. Vitus, Martyr, June 15
St. Erasmus (Elmo), Bishop and Martyr, June 2
St. Christopher, Martyr, July 25
St. Giles, Abbot, September 1
St. Cyriacus (Cyriac), Martyr, August 8
St. Achatius, Martyr, May 8
St. Dionysius (Denis), Bishop and Martyr, October 9
St. Eustachius (Eustace), Martyr, September 20
St. Catherine of Alexandria, Virgin and Martyr, November 25
St. Margaret of Antioch, Virgin and Martyr, July 20
St. Barbara, Virgin and Martyr, December 4
February 5th
St. Agatha
Born circa 231 AD, St. Agatha was born in Catania -- or Palermo, Sicily. She was martyred during the persecution of Decius in approximately 251 AD. She is one of several virgin martyrs who are commemorated by name in the Canon of the Mass.[5]
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| Agatha in front of the judge as depicted in a stained glass window from 1515 in Notre-Dame |
old Agatha, the child of a rich and noble family, rejected the amorous propositions of the Roman prefect Quintianus. Knowing she was a Christian and having no regard for her vow of virginity, Quintianus, persisted, until after multiple refusals, he reported her to the authorities, expecting her to give in when she was faced with torture and possible death. Instead, she reaffirmed her belief in God by praying: "Jesus Christ, Lord of all, you see my heart, you know my desires. Possess all that I am. I am your sheep: make me worthy to overcome the devil." (from the Golden Legend) With the intention of corrupting Agatha, Quintianus imprisoned her in a brothel, but Agatha, heroic as ever and buoyed by constant prayer never lost her confidence in God and remained unsullied and determined.
Enraged, Quintianus sent for her again, argued, threatened, and after her constant refusal to deny her faith, had her imprisoned and tortured. She was stretched on a rack to be torn with iron hooks, burned with torches, and whipped. Among the tortures she underwent was the cutting off of her breasts. Finally, though half-dead, Agatha remaining steadfast, was sentenced to be burnt burned at the stake, but an earthquake saved her from that fate. She was sent once again to prison where St. Peter, the first pope, appeared to her, healing her wounds, and she soon thereafter died in prison, about the year 251AD.
St. Agatha is the patron saint of Catania as well as several other principalities in Italy and Spain. She is also the patron saint of breast cancer patients, martyrs, wet nurses, bell-foundries, and bakers, and she invoked against fire, earthquakes, and eruptions of Mount Etna.
In honor of their patroness, February 3rd through 5th are days of great celebration in Catania, Sicily, full of ancient traditions. Go here to check it out!
The Martyrs of Japan
Their story:
In August, 1549,St. Francis Xavier (see above) sent his first Jesuit envoys, Fr. Cosmo de Torres and Fr. Juan Fernandez to Kagoshima, Japan. Following standard protocol of the time, a contingent of the Religious visited the "daimyo" (powerful local leader) of Kagoshima asking for permission to build their mission within the boundaries of his territory, particularly as this would be first Catholic mission in Japan). Hoping that the presence of the mission would help create a trade relationship with Europe, Kagoshima assented.
Initially, the "shoguns" (the next rung up in Japanese leadership), as well as the imperial government initially supported these Catholic missionaries; in addition to promoting trade, they hoped that a little competition would reduce the power of the Buddhist monks in Japan that had begun to become problematic to the civil leadership. It didn't take long, however, before this theory was replaced by suspicion of the Jesuits' influence, as well. Fearing the global example of foreign takeovers by the west(known at the time as "colonialism"), the Japanese government aimed to nip the problem in the bud, outlawed Catholicism, and started persecuting Catholics. All Japanese converts who refused to abandon their faith were killed.
In October, 1596, a Spanish galleon, the San Felipe, wrecked off the coast of Japan and the local daimyo seized the valuable cargo. In the aftermath of the incident, the captain of the ship, in an effort to regain the cargo (or in an effort to save his own life) injudiciously claimed that the purpose of Catholic missionaries was to prepare for inevitable invasion, thus cementing in the minds of the Japanese leaders, what had been ongoing rumors. Subsequently, the daimyo escalated the persecutions to include the missionaries, and 26 Catholics – four Spaniards, one Mexican, and one Portuguese from India (all Franciscan missionaries), three Japanese Jesuits, and 17 Japanese members of the Third Order of St. Francis, including three young boys – were executed by crucifixion in Nagasaki on February 5, 1597. Their feas tday remains on this date in commemoration of their steadfast bravery in the Faith.
Persecutions in Japan continued sporadically until the arrival of Western missionaries in the 19th century, but not before hundreds more Japanese Catholics earned the crown of martyrdom.
February 7th
Sexagesima Sunday
* Remote preparation for Easter, "Sexagesima" literally meaning "sixty" falls sixty days before Easter. It follows the first "heads up" feast day, Septuagesima (meaning "seventy"), on January 31st. Pretty good overview can be found --- Here.
February 10th
St. Scholastica
* Reflections on the Feast of St. Scholastica, twin sister of St. Benedict, by Dom Gueranger in The Liturgical year --- Here.
* Lovely St. Scholastica coloring page --- Here.
February 11th
Our Lady of Lourdes
* St. Bernadette's entire story of the apparitions at Lourdes can be found here. And another lovely version here.
* Here is a coloring page of Our Lady of Lourdes, courtesy of wonderful, talented Charlotte.
* Movies to watch: The1943 classic, The Song of Bernadette, And a new version, the one that is shown at Lourdes, Bernadette, and its sequel, The Passion of Bernadette,
* Books: A Holy Life: St. Bernadette of Lourdes,
Bernadette Speaks: A Life of Saint Bernadette Soubirous in Her Own Words
St. Bernadette Soubirous
* Many posts from AWTY over the years on St. Bernadette and Lourdes, if you click here.
* Websites to check out: the official Lourdes Sanctuary
official Saint Bernadette-Nevers site and tons of photos of St. Bernadette
February 14th
Quinquagesima Sunday
* Meaning "fifty," Quinquagesima is the last Sunday of the remote preparation for Lent, preceding Ash Wednesday. If you haven't already started pondering what you want to give up for Lent this year, now is the time. time to put a bug in the children's ears, too (so to speak). In years past, we had a special family meeting on this Sunday and either on this day or by Wednesday, at the latest, the children were required to write down their sacrifices on little bits of papers (sometimes especially decorated and placed in handmade envelopes, if I was being a creative kind of homeschool Mom at that time) and then they all slipped them under our Pieta statue, which is specially decorated for the season. This made each child's decision a commitment about which there were no "backsies," and placed the accountability exactly where it needed to be for a good Lent. (And also in case of memory loss or contention with siblings, Mom or Dad could just look it up. Came in handy more often than you would think, having it written down!)
and St. Valentine
* Prayer to St. Valentine for our children's choice of spouse
Heavenly Father, we ask You to guide our children in the choice of spouse. Don't let them be carried away by false charms or be fascinated by mere outward glamour, but guide their minds to look beneath and beyond all external attractiveness for the deeper things which alone are worth while.Especially let the choice be of one who is a fervent Catholic, true in thought and word and deed to those ideals which are Yours, especially the value of their purity.
Dear Father of us all, give Your guiding help to our children, who are Your children, too. We will be letting them go soon, but please don't ever let our children go from you. Amen
St. Valentine, patron of romantic love, pray for us!
* St. Valentine Day posts throughout the years (that might interest my family, especially -- as they show the children when they were so little), but there's other information of general interest, as well, including the history of the feast.
February 17th
Ash Wednesday
* All the factoids (lots of really neat stuff) concerning Ash Wednesday --- Here.
* What Catholics Need to Know Regarding Fast and Abstinence
(The uniform norms for fast and abstinence adopted in 1951 by the bishops of the United States, modified at their November 1956 meeting' as observed by most traditional Catholics in our country. All rules of fast and abstinence can be modified by a local bishop.)
Abstinence (of meat)
Fasting
4. Meat may be taken at the principal meal on a day of fast except on Fridays, Ash Wednesday, Holy Saturday, and the Vigils of the Immaculate Conception and Christmas.Also on February 17th
The Holy Family's Flight into Egypt
* Fascinating facts about the journey the Holy Family made from Bethlehem to Egypt. One of AWTY's most viewed posts, it has almost 8,000 hits! Go check it out --- Here.
February 21st
First Official Sunday of Lent
* We're free to lift our Lenten observances of fasting and other sacrifices on Lenten Sundays if we like. Some intrepid souls stick it out all the way through (more power to them!), but most of us appreciate the Church's Wisdom in allowing the break.For those who challenge themselves during Lent, this day off gains greater significance as the forty days progress, but this first Sunday can set the tone for the following six Sundays! In an effort to encourage moderation (and discourage a pig-out free-for-all!), we've always allowed a prudent amount of snacking for the family, plus sweets and movies (we always gave up the latter two as a family), but we tried to make the day special by making a specific Lenten Sunday Grand Plan. Chief among the traditions in the Grand Plan was getting to watch an episode of the old "All Creatures Great and Small" series in the late afternoon, complete with a smorgasbord of popcorn, cheese, sliced fruit, and sausage.
We still look forward to this annual tradition, even though Dan and I are the only ones home during Lent any more. We're especially excited this year, though, as we have a PBS remake of All Creatures to look forward to sampling! It's supposed to be family friendly... (Sure hope it is!)
Take-away, not just for parents: It adds to the anticipation and feeling of reward for a week done well to personalize the day off (however you choose!) in a structured way! Instead of OD-ing on Forbidden Fruits of Lent, it's always helped us to add something different and special on Lenten Sundays that everyone will especially enjoy -- a new board game or a hike or ongoing series with wholesome themes, instead -- whatever works for you. Kids love the predictability -- and so do parents!
February 22nd
St. Peter's Chair at Antioch
* What on earth this feast day is all about --- Here.
* Interesting quote from Archbp Fulton J. Sheen that somewhat correlates, as it pertains to the Chair of Peter today: "Is it any wonder then that St. Peter along with Ezekiel in the Old Testament speak of the destruction of the Temple and the persecution of the Church is coming from within. Ezekiel said, “Incipite a sanctuario meo,” and St. Peter; “Begin at my sanctuary.” Begin there in the sanctuary, and that was what was first destroyed when Titus and Vespasian took over Jerusalem. And Peter said that’s the way it will be at the end." From Conference # 10 given by Archbishop Sheen for the Priests of the Archdiocese of Washington at Loyola, (Aside: Say what you like about him, he was at least at one time, filled with the wisdom of the Holy Ghost. What happened during VII? Who knows?)
* Interesting interactive digital map that teaches about the spread of Christianity throughout the Roman Empire --- Here.
February 24th
Ember Wednesday
* Some Lenten Cheerleading to add some oomph to the last days before Holy Week and Easter -- Here.
and St. Matthias, the Apostle
* The apostle who replaced Judas! Reflections from The Liturgical Year about St. Matthias --- Here.
* The only apostle not directly chosen by Christ, this day is a good one to talk about Apostolic Succession, as here proven to be a fact of the earliest function of the Church. My Catholic Faith is a good source of information.
February 26th
Ember Friday
* Full abstinence is required today, as always on Fridays for all healthy Catholics between the ages of 7 and 59; for all Catholics between the ages of 21 and 59, fasting (as described above) is also the order of the day -- but, as it's Lent, it is rather a moot point, like watering a lawn while it's raining.
and the feast of St. Mechtilde
* Short Biography: "The Nightingale of Helfta," St Mechtilde, famous now as the mentor of St. Gertrude the Great, was known in her own time for the beauty of her voice and her gift for music, as well as for her academic ability, and her wise counsel. Eventually becoming the Abbess of the Cistercian Convent at Rodersdorf, Germany, where she had lived from the age of seven, St. Mechtilde was a mystic, as well, was a precursor to St. Gertrude and St. Margaret Mary as a devotee of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, and is known to have been the given by the Blessed Mother, herself, the devotion of the Three Hail Marys.
Having prayed for aid in the quest of her eternal salvation and especially for to come bringing her assistance at the hour of her death, the Blessed Virgin appeared to St. Mechtilde and reassured her, saying: "Yes, I will! But I wish, for your part, that you recite three Hail Marys every day, remembering in the first the Power received from the Eternal Father, in the second the Wisdom received from the Son, with the third one the Love that has filled the Holy Spirit". The Blessed Virgin taught her to pray and to understand especially how the three Hail Marys honor the three Persons of the Blessed Trinity.
* Today would be a good day to explore sacred music, especially from the time of St. Mechtilde and St. Gertrude (1240-1298)
February 27th
St. Gabriel of the Sorrowful Mother
* Short biography (of one of our family patrons!) --- Here. St. Gabriel of the Sorrowful Mother, the Young Men's Little Flower.
* St. Gabriel Possenti is on our saints from large families list, the eleventh of thirteen children!
February 28th
2nd Sunday of Lent
* Last day of February and 30 days of Lent left to go!









































